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I am worried that this is going to be a bad idea. She is kinda controlling to begin with and I have a feeling she is trying to press things into a deeper relationship than you are ready for. You will find that if she moves with you, she will not like the commute and it will be easy for her to blame things on you as it was your choice to move. You will find that everything will be your fault. You will lose the newness and freshness in the relationship. If you decide down the road that you miss her and wish for her to move in at that time, it will work out better as it will be your choice also, and not just her forcing her way in. Do yourself a favor and don't allow yourself to get in too deep when you have concerns that it isnt exactly right at this time.